wht's mine is not always yours

one thing i have trouble understanding is when two good friends decide to like the same person. This cannot end in happiness. I know they are thinking, "We dont decide, it just happens". Yes, that is somewhat true, but we definitely have control over whether or not we act on our crushes or feelings of love. If my friend told me she liked rish, in that moment he would become a nonpassibility for me. And if i told my friend i liked someone, the same better true for her. No matter how handsome he is or how preety she is, they are forbidden territory. A NO GO. leave it alone. Two friends going after the same person is an invitation to a very unhappy place / venue. Noboby wins. When we say we trust a friend, wht we usually mean is we know our friend wont talk about us behind our back. We know he 0r she is truthful with us. We know our friend has our best intrests at heart. These are things we deserve from a friend. FULLSTOP
LOTS OF LOVE, sara
toooodles :)